Stephen Ministry

Care for hurting people.

Stephen Ministry is a Congregational Care ministry in which trained and supervised laypeople, called Stephen Ministers, provide one-to-one Christian care to individuals facing life challenges. Life challenges include grief support, dealing with major loses and life transitions. Stephen Ministers are caring Christians who listen, understand, accept, and pray for and with care receivers who are working through a difficult time in life. We already have 6 qualified Stephen Ministers and Stephen Ministry Leaders. These folks are our core team who will recruit, train, and supervise our home-grown crop of Stephen Ministers. Stephen Ministry has been around since 1975, when Kenneth Haugk, a pastor and clinical psychologist, began it to multiply the caregiving in his congregation in St. Louis, Missouri. To date, more than 600,000 people have been trained as Stephen Ministers who have used their caregiving skills to touch the lives of over 1.5 million Care Receivers.

Please pray for the initial Stephen Ministry team as we big the process of inviting, recruiting, and educating. I will be leading this wonderful team. Our team also includes Pastor Paul, Fredrick Seiden, Gina & Carl Bouk, and Don Mordhorst. We ask for you prayers for KOG community as we initiate this wonderful supportive ministry out of love and devotion towards God and towards one another.

If you feel the Holy Spirit stirring your interest in this powerful ministry, begin by talking to me, Pastor Paul or one of our Stephen Ministers, and they can tell you more. We plan to begin our next training class in mid-March and would love to have you part of the group.

-Pastor Rachael

Questions and Answers about Stephen Ministry

What Is Stephen Ministry?

Stephen Ministry is a ministry in our congregation in which trained and supervised laypeople, called Stephen Ministers, provide one-to-one Christian care to individuals facing life challenges.

Who Is Involved?

Stephen Leaders are the ones who oversee and direct our Stephen Ministry. They recruit, select, train, organize, and supervise our Stephen Ministers; identify people in need of care; and match them with a Stephen Minister. We have one Stephen Leader: Pastor Rachael.

Stephen Ministers are lay caregivers. They have engaged in high-quality training in Christian caregiving, including topics such as listening, feelings, boundaries, and assertiveness. We currently have six active Stephen Ministers.

Care receivers are the recipients of Stephen Ministers’ care. They are people from our church or community who are experiencing grief, loss of a job, divorce, loneliness, illness, or other life difficulties. Stephen Ministers meet with their care receivers once a week for about an hour for as long as the care receiver needs it.

What Do Stephen Ministers Do?

Stephen Ministers are caring Christians who listen, understand, accept, and pray for and with care receivers who are working through a difficult time in life.

Are Stephen Ministers Counselors?

Stephen Ministers are not counselors; they are trained lay caregivers. Their role is to listen and care, not to give advice. Stephen Ministers are also trained to recognize when a care receiver’s needs fall outside what they are equipped to provide—at which point they help connect the care receiver with the appropriate outside resource.

Why the Name Stephen?

The name Stephen comes from St. Stephen, who was the first layperson commissioned by the apostles to provide caring ministry to those in need (Acts 6).

Does the Pastor Still Have a Caregiving Role?

Pastors will always be the primary caregivers—and Stephen Ministry provides them with support in their caring ministry. God has called all of us, not just pastors, to minister to one another. Stephen Ministry multiplies ministry by equipping laypeople to provide care while pastors handle the caring needs they can best address.

Where Did It All Start?

Stephen Ministry has been around since 1975, when Kenneth Haugk, a pastor and clinical psychologist, began it to multiply the caregiving in his congregation in St. Louis, Missouri. We have had Stephen Ministry here at [church name] since [year]. [You may want to include information from the Media Fact Sheet such as the number of congregations and denominations involved with Stephen Ministry.]

How Can Someone Receive Care from a Stephen Minister?

Gina Bouk is our Stephen Leader who coordinates referrals. If you or someone you know could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister, you can talk to her, one of our pastors, or any of our other Stephen Leaders. Any of our Stephen Ministers would also be happy to help you through the process. (If you want to talk about Stephen Ministry for someone else, make sure you get his or her permission first.)

How Can I Become a Stephen Minister?

Begin by talking to one of our Stephen Leaders or Stephen Ministers, and they can tell you more. We plan to train a new class of Stephen Ministers by fall 2022.

What Does the Stephen Ministry Logo Mean?

The broken person behind the cross symbolizes the brokenness in our lives due to our sin and imperfections. The whole person stands in front of the cross because it is only through the cross of Jesus that we are made whole. The circle symbolizes both the wholeness we receive through Christ and God’s unending love for us.